As always, great thoughts from the Shadowman.
On the second point, I can tell you that the site was started with the goal of arriving where we are today. I didn't think it would ever get this tight, but the acceptable conduct of the site was to act only as you'd act in real life. That has paid great dividends I think, whereas many car sites become a platform for keyboard warriors to run into a virtual room and unleash their innermost child. I couldn't have forecast that many of my closest friends on the site weren't just my closest friends "on the site", but just plain closest friends. The Rally is an enormous expression of that.
I've always felt, and I think the core membership of the forum feels the same way, that the day we stand around in a parking lot handing each other trophies for being the North Mid-South Region Club Vice President of the Year is the day the site gets shut down. Just as you said, there are no egos here. I hope this continues perpetually.