How did her parents raise her? I tell my kids they are not getting anything unless they earn it. If one of my kids had this reaction I would tell them be pack their bags and move out, then they can buy whatever color car they wanted, on their own dime. ( I just hope when the time comes my wife agrees).
Look at the Father's reaction, he is just reinforcing this destructive behavior. I wouldn't want anything to do with this girl. She won't be able to hold down a decent job, but she won't have to. Some "man" out there will suck it up and give her what she wants.
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