A lesson from Final 4 - Not about basketball
I couldn't believe it, but a friend called an offered me a ticket to last evenings game. I was preparing to watch it on TV and was really surprised by the call. Not surprising, just like football, It was/is all about the crowd - it was 'electric'.
Actually, the best was before the game. I went downtown early just to see what was going on in Detroit. For all the bashing the state and city has taken, it was alive as never before, even Super Bowl XL seemed less an event. Most restaurants and bars had lines around the buildings - people waiting to get in.
I finally decided to go into the only place without a line around the building for a beer. I stood at the bar for 20 minutes trying to get the attention of the bartender to no avail. As I waited, I talked to this 'older fellow' from southern California who stepped in to order a beer on my behalf. We talked for about an hour and he was very low profile, until I brought up one of my favorite (basketball) people - Bobby Knight.
From then-on, as we talked about Knight, Indiana and high school basketball in the state of Indiana he really picked up and I noticed there was lots of eye-to-eye contact. Even though I mentioned I really respected Bob Knight, he seemed to challenge (lightly) my perspective. I finally just told the fellow, I thought coach Knight stood for the more important principals in life - graduating great people who happened to be great players. He finally stopped the challenges and he mentioned he had been in Knight's office 'a coupe of times' in his career and that he now coached high school basketball.
He then introduced me to a few of his friends, turns out these folks were people who he had coached during his career. They shared stories about his discipline and his approach to the game, but all of the stories had a recurring theme - in automotive vernacular, these were 'lessons learned' about success in building character and people.
As we finished our beer, another from this guys group of friends, who had just listened to our entire conversation, walked up to me, smiled and casually mentioned that "Jim" was a nationally known HS coach and is affiliated with NCAA in some fashion. As he were leaving, his friend also mentioned that "Jim" played for coach Knight, but wouldn't offer any more than that.
As I left Hard Rock and walked to the stadium, I was left with a distinct message that there are still people out there who understand that a game is just game, a job is just a job, but the reminder that life is about building character, developing people and giving back to your community.
And, I didn't mention that "Jim" insisted on buying my beer, and warmly wished me luck. I don't know who is "Jim" is, but I damn sure know what he stands for. When people you coach come back and travel to see you for 15+ years -- its a message. :thumbsup